Let's talk about the thing that actually destroys couples
Mismatched sex drive doesn't feel like a big deal until it does. One partner wants sex twice a week. The other wants it twice a month. One initiates constantly. The other feels cornered. One orgasms in five minutes. The other needs twenty. Nobody's wrong. Nobody's broken. But the math doesn't work, and suddenly you're keeping score, feeling rejected, or worst of all, performing sex you don't actually want.
I've worked with hundreds of couples stuck in this exact loop. The higher-desire partner feels perpetually turned down. The lower-desire partner feels perpetually pressured. Both feel lonely. And here's the thing: neither person wants to